Flavor of the week? night? ...no thank you

"Really? You expect me to say yes to you for sex because you have found me attractive since the first time we met...this is the third time...and I'm gonna say no" I find it odd that even with the constant scare of std rates, the emotional distress, the fact that nearly everyone is sleeping with everyone, that confrontation for sex is so simple to most everyone. Sex is insignificant, no substance for love, just a good romp these days. I was raised in many households, each it's own individual ideals and morals for sex. I found the most interesting was living with my dad. He started raising me when I was 8. My mom out of the picture due to her own misfortunes, my dad was left with a roll of two parents, which meant as I got older his explanations had to come for my questions of womanhood. I'd ask questions without filter quite often, most likely causing him discomfort. But he never failed for a good, understanding answer. He was a good role model, more like an older brother. He never had any girlfriends, respected women- this wasn't because he was bad looking or a freak. He just knew he had a responsibility for my welfare.

           So why do all these other young adults believe it's okay to just have sex... do their parents not push their child to have respect for their bodies? Why is it okay to just ask a girl... what kind of gentleman are you? I just got out of a relationship, so I'm supposed to rebound?! How trashy... I'll stick to my monogamous relationships and keep my legs together.


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Promiscuity in men may cheapen love but sharpen thought. Promiscuity in women is illness, a leakage of identity. The promiscuous woman is self-contaminated and incapable of clear ideas. She has ruptured the ritual integrity of her body.  Camille Paglia

To sleep around is absolutely wrong for a woman; it’s degrading and it completely ruins her personality. Sooner or later it will destroy all that is feminine and beautiful and idealistic in her.  Barbara Cartland